Not the swat team

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After learning of grade cheating and sex going on at area schools recently, it's obvious more discipline is needed.

But we're not sure that needs to come in the form of corporal punishment in schools.

The subject came up in both Richmond County and Columbia County schools this past week. A state report apparently incorrectly cited nine incidents of paddling in Richmond County schools last year; a school official says the reports were the result of clerical errors, and that she's not aware of any corporal punishment in Augusta schools since the 1980s.

Meanwhile, the Columbia County Board of Education officially disallowed corporal punishment this week by taking the OK-to-spank policy off the books -- even though the district had really abandoned the tactic long ago.

Columbia County Superintendent Charles Nagle said spanking is a parental issue. We agree.

The truth is, certainly at school -- and perhaps in the home as well -- if you have to resort to spanking anyone older than a toddler, it may be you who's failed.

We're supposed to be smarter than the child we raise. Surely we can use more erudite forms of punishment, behavior control and discipline than slapping or spanking.

Toddlers have difficulty grasping how behavior leads to consequences. But school-age children should be sophisticated enough to understand "if A then B." And their wants and desires are compelling and clear enough that they can understand that bad behavior on their part can stand in the way of getting what they want.

This isn't new-age, touchy-feely, can't-we-all-get-along mushy-headed nonsense we're talking about. Indeed, there's nothing like a limited, focused swat on the behind to get an out-of-control toddler's attention. But it must be a last resort, must be limited in scope, must be rarely used, and must be clearly explained in order to be effective.

Moreover, if a child is old enough to reason, he is old enough to be disciplined with more refined methods.

If you're still resorting to spanking beyond the age of reason, then it's quite likely your fault, not the child's.

Comments

patriciathomas

I don't know which single reporter without children or child raising experience wrote this article, but one of them did. "slapping or spanking"? Why not "clubbing or spanking" or "kicking or spanking" or "body-slamming or spanking"? Equating slapping to corporal punishment is an indication of personal problems. A slap carries numerous connotations regarding self-worth, social relations, and potential for respect and should only be used when one wishes to start a fight with no end. Also, when a young child begins to form ideas on behavior, often the "trial and error" method is used. Wisdom doesn't enter into the equation since a child has almost none. A spanking, accompanied by an explanation, goes a long way toward endowing wisdom before bad habits can be formed. The amount of corporal punishment a child may need should be decided by the parent, but to suggest spanking should indicate a personal failure of the parent IS "new-age, touchy-feely, can't-we-all-get-along muchy-headed nonsense".

Riverman1

Some kids need to be spanked, some don't. Don't go with any theory. You know your kids better than anyone.

bebbe

Oh PLease..... think about it. When the schools had spankings ( and I mean a swat on the year not beatings or water boarding) we did not have the drugs, weapons, gangs, disrespect, sexual activities, a need for metal detectors, video cameras to spy, etc. So much cheaper and wiser to have a wooden paddle than all this other. A few pops on the butt and guess what... that kid realized that school was serious business and shaped up. We have 2nd graders so totally out of control and no where to put them so they attend classes and cause major havoc, harm, loss of instruction, and they are making YOUR child sitting next to them suffer unbelievable harm.

disssman

All we need is a little more Ridlin and everything will be all right. If we had punishment then parents wouldn't be able to get their kids on the ADD and the money it provides would be lost, not to mention the impact on head shrinks.

jack

bebbe, I agree totally. As I said before on this subject, I got a couple of paddlings in high school and a smack on the hand with a foot ruler in elementary school. I paid attention. Though a student body of about 1200 boys at mey school, we had few problems with discipline, NO problem with drugs or weapons, as we knew each teacher and the principal had paddles made in the wood shop. Only one of my kids got a spanking in school (school had my permission) and there were no more problems as my kids knew they had to see me when they got home. Too many parents either are afraid to discipline their kids and won't allow the school, so yes, we have major discipline problems, drugs, weapons and yes, sex in our schools today because the students now have too many "rights" in my opinion. I believe the policy should return to where the schools act "in loco patentis" as soon as that kid steps on campus. Another solution to many discipline problems is to eliminate "main streaming", where kids with severe learning disabilities and associtaed behavior problems are allowed to remain in class with those students there to learn and are able to. Now, I'll sit back and wait fo rthe attacks.

jack

On the subject of slapping a child (or anyone else), you could not degrade that child more (nor anyone else), therefore, have cause more emotional problems adding to any discipinary problems the child may have. As for slappinng me, well get ready to get your lip bloused (whether male or female slapper).

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