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Barack Obama chose Father's Day to urge African-American men to be better fathers. He said too many are "missing from too many lives and too many homes.

"They have abandoned their responsibilities, acting like boys instead of men."

The numbers are stark, and give him credence: 45 years ago, 70 percent of African-American families were headed by couples; today, the number is in the 40 percentile. In 1960, 22 percent of black births were illegitimate; today, the number is 70 percent.

Such trends have been true for most demographic groups in America, but most acutely for African-Americans: The decline in marriage rates has been twice as big for blacks as for the general population since 1970.

Moreover, Barack and Michelle Obama are terrific ambassadors for the two-parent family, and have the moral authority to issue the kind of broadsides he did on Sunday; a white candidate might not have done the same thing, for fear of being viewed as racist.

But in truth, families of all races must be protected.

As for black families, Mr. Obama told a mostly black congregation in Chicago that "We can't simply write these problems off to past injustices."

The numbers there, too, bear him out: If marriage rates were higher and illegitimacy rates were lower 45 years ago, yet segregation has been abolished and racism increasingly diminished, then something else has contributed to the problems Obama speaks of.

Many believe the welfare state, particularly as enshrined by President Johnson's "Great Society," exacerbated the decline in marriage rates and the increase in illegitimacy and economic hardships we've seen across racial lines.

Regardless of what caused the problems, it's a dubious proposition to suggest that the solution is more government. If government did hurt families, then more government certainly can't help. And even if government couldn't be directly faulted, an increase in government dependence is hardly the prescription for the kind of self-reliance Mr. Obama talked about on Sunday.

Indeed, Obama not only called on men to be better fathers, but he also urged parents to expect more from their children, especially in school.

He's right. And we hope such views will color his philosophies on government, vs. self-reliance, going forward.

Comments

christian134

Obama has once again allowed his prejudices against all but the black race to erupt....There are more than black dads out there that need to give an accounting for their acts of procreation....Men and women of today both need to give an accounting but especially the "sperm donors"....They seem to feel like it is their God given right to have indiscriminate sex and when finished move on without regards to what has become of the woman and perhaps a child....Families have all but become extinct....All races need to stand up, care about what they do, care about family and God more than their own brief pleasures....It is not all about blacks Obama...

convertedsoutherner

Bill Cosby gave this message to black fathers, some time ago, and was villified.

shivas

To proclaim yourself a christian, you sure have a lot of anger and hate. Obama was speaking to a very real crisis in black families, and all you can do is call him racist. Right-wing strategy, I guess.

WHATDIDIDO

Shivas, you hit it right on the head. These are some of the same people that praised Bill Cosby, yet attack Obama for giving the same message. By the way, Bill Cosby is not the first person to say these things.

christian134

Why would you infer I have much hate or anger in my heart?...You are like the proverbial pot calling the kettle black shivas and hypo...I don't hate and I am not angry... I am put out with the injustice's perpetrated by racism of the blacks against white....I can say the same thing about you people when you revert to name calling if anyone disagrees or even off-handed makes a remark on behavior that is downright unjust....So if I am not acting Christian then you also are saying in the same breathe you yourselves are not acting as a Christian should...right...Right...:-)

I4PUTT

I applaud Obama for this address to black men. This may be where the problem is greatest and what better place to start. I will never vote for him but I can see when he does good. Anything we can do to get people off the welfare roles, back to work, self sufficient and taking care of their families makes life better for all of us.

WHATDIDIDO

" You people". Would that be Liberals, or something else?

christian134

YOu people meaning silly obstinate insulting and downright irritating people....Pretty well covers it don't you Think...Now I know you can manage that hypo....:-) Oh hypo I would like to add that I am most assuredly referring to many blacks, not all but many, and whites who are so outrageously liberal that it makes a sane person want to barf....The only time you liberals will scream out against the very moral codes you seek to circumvent will be when they come back around and bite you in your or your families behinds....

shivas

Stay out of the sun Christian134. I have no response for your emotional outbursts.

teharper428

Christian134, did you listen to Senator Obama's entire speech? or just the snippets? I did listen to it all, Barack was speaking of all "deadbeat" fathers regardless of race, but at times did address the black community. When Barack was in Aiken, he spoke about how parents should participate in their children's education, by helping with homework, turn off the tv, etc. Those comments I took to be aimed at all parents. As a father of young children, he is a great spokesman of positive parenting. It's not often we have a young father running for president to point out good parenting is the road to our future generations' success.

nightraiders1

It's called the dumb down society which equals gimme, gimme, gimme, with no responsibility. Blacks lead the pack, but have no corner on it. By the way, the writer is correct in saying if a white candidate said the same thing as b-barack, he would be crucified and called racist!

Bizarro

It is doubtful the black community will listen to these pleas-as noted this ain't the first time this has been proposed. Seems a black community problem that the black community needs to address because if whites get involved there is always the out that it is the whites fault. The time for pointing fingers is over and time to address the problem. Govt doesn't seem the solution as many claim the govt has also oppressed or abused blacks-like the Tuskegee Syphilis experiment. I'm old enough to remember segregated communites (which I'm not suggesting we go back to) which produced thriving black communities, schools, churches, social venues, etc. Black power is something the young seemed to have forgotten. I have always encouraged my black brothers and sisters to pursue advancement in the work place, because the Peter principal doesn't apparently apply to blacks and they probably aren't being allowed to reach their full potential. I have seen a number of times a qualified white promoted before the qualified (same or better) black-I encouraged a discrimination law suit. I like multicultural diversity in the work place and I hate the good ole boy mentality. I grew up with a bunch of good ole boys and "psychotic" comes to mind in describing many. Some of my own personal anger management issues arises from my great desire to beat the crap out of many of them-which I did by the way in my youth-hee,hee,hee.

christian134

Shivas you so funny.....:-)

laking

Christian 134, What do you mean by "I'm put out of the injustices perpertrated by THE blacks against whites"? What kind of injustices you're talking about? It appears to me that you're using the Right Wing tactic of trying to minimize the true meaning of the word. Racism is defined as the belief that one race is superior to other races; a political or social policy or system against a race or races based on this belief. Trying to acquaint the fight for equal rights and shared priviledges with racism is rhetoric that being used lately by the far right winged
crowd to try to obscure the history of racism in this country and particularly here in the South. It people like you that are trying to confuse the important issues by using this kind of useless and meaningless attempt to inject the power of this word.

intheknow

Wow. That is all I can say. The man makes a positive sppech and he is attacked. I am no Obama supporter, however some on here hate this man with a passion and missed the message. It is not about race, it is about rtesposibility. We need to raise our children to make better choices.

griesella

When it was mentioned here that Michele Obama, in one of her speeches, stated that her husband, Barak, believed that everyone should work for their living, that he believed in "pulling ones self up by the boot straps" the lefty's went nuts. Now that he has said it for all to hear, hopefully they will believe and even better, listen and learn. I won't vote for him but I am proud of him that he doesn't believe in the "nanny state". One of my problems with him is he wants the money saved here in eliminating programs to go to the poor in foreign countries. Who was it that said "you can't have it all".

christian134

Okay laking I am just using the word racist in the same manner others who use that word like some kind of badge of honor...Pardon me but I will use the word prejudiced...Will that suit your sensibilities...Black Theology is a power tool that has been and is being taught daily throughout black churches without any end in sight...They fuel dislike for the white race...As far as injustices just look around friend and if you can rise above all the "junk" that is being perceived as racism of whites eternally against black then you will see what I am saying...If not don't let it worry yourself as it really doesn't matter a whole heck of alot what you believe or do not believe. This is being said in all forms of niceness unlike what the good "Rev.s" are saying....:-)

devilishlymad67

The Anti-Christ will be a man, in his 40s, of MUSLIM descent, who will deceive the nations with persuasive language, and have a MASSIVE Christ-like appeal....the prophecy says that people will flock to him and he will promise false hope and world peace, and when he is in power, he will destroy everything.

laking

Christian134, you seemed like the kind of christian like the kind during the early 20th century up to the 1940s, that went to church on a Sunday morning and then went to view a lynching that same afternoon. Now that is the kind of injustice I'm talking about. What kind of theology was being preached then? What fuel YOUR dislike for the Black race? Give me an example of this "junk" you're talking about.

ITDoc

Obama's comments are in line with what I've posted here and been accused of racism. Bravo, Mr. Obama. Now, get rid of your taxation ideas and I'll reconsider my vote.

sjgraci

I remember 16 years ago when the Christian nut-cases were predicting Bill Clinton to be the Anti-Christ with the same doom and gloom false prophecies. Pull your heads out of the Bible for a second and quit being conned by the John Hagees. We have just been through 8 years of Hell. It can't get much worse.

shivas

Develish, please get off the computer before your parents find-out your posing as an adult.

Signal Always

Barack was as right to say what he said as Cosby was when he said it. However, he then went on talking about all kinds of tax-payer funded programs to make this possible. Making it my responsibility, as a taxpayer, isn't exactly the same as telling them they need to be more responsible. Hell, sounds like he wants to pay them to stay with their kids and use our money to make it happen.

christian134

Well for one the video of black church people jumping up and down when whites are being made fun of, blacks who have taken jobs from whites even though they are nowhere near qualified, blacks who have to have black pages, black bill boards, black colleges, blacks who consistently are loud, rude, crude, promoting black theology in churches as a way of life....If whites were to do these things we would be labeled as Klan-which I have been referred to as such- plus we are labeled as racist-hating all blacks everywhere on the planet...Which I am not and have never been known to say one word against blacks who are oppressed and murdered just for being alive...Blacks were at one time used and used bitterly and that was wrong but it has been corrected and is now overboard with blacks who expect others to take care of them and put up with a total lack of moral code....Many whites as well as others have the same problem with morals but you just ask me about the black instances...All this being said I am a bigot against many things but not a racist. Also I am a human being not a saint and therefore I have feelings just like you and others and will continue to express them as I see fit.

teharper428

Tall2, here is a comparison of Obama & McCain's tax plans:
www.taxpolicycenter.org/taxtopics/election_issues_maxtrix.cfm

Read carefully and see which one benefits you best.

teharper428

The only statement that made sense in Christian's latest rant is:
"...I am a bigot against many things..."

mommie2

Devilish have you ever read the Bible? Give me an exact book and verse where you found that. Oh wait you believe everything in emails. Figures. I have to say I agree with the AC editors this time. Far from what they usually write about Obama.

Signal Always

Devilish, I don't even think Muslims existed when the bible was written.

teharper428

Devilish's comments reminds me of the bumper sticker "If the rapture comes, can I have your car?"

cutty101

All things are possible through Jesus Christ our savior. Christian134 I will continue to keep you in my prayers. I feel your pain and anguish everytime I read these postings. God wants us to treat all mankind with grace! it is amazing how different people respond to you when Christ is in your life. Your screen name tells me you may be a Christian, but you have forgotten that to be a Christian you must try each day to emulate Christ like behavior.

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