Sense of humor helps man after brain tumor diagnosis

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Tim McNeill's attitude toward his brain tumor can be summed up in his cell phone's ringtone: Don't Fear the Reaper , by Blue Oyster Cult.

Tim McNeill; his wife, Cindy; and son, Dylan are from North Augusta. A year ago, Mr. McNeill received the same diagnosis of a malignant tumor as Sen. Ted Kennedy did this week. Mr. McNeill says he is doing well, which his wife believes is a result of humor.  Jackie Ricciardi/Staff
Jackie Ricciardi/Staff
Tim McNeill; his wife, Cindy; and son, Dylan are from North Augusta. A year ago, Mr. McNeill received the same diagnosis of a malignant tumor as Sen. Ted Kennedy did this week. Mr. McNeill says he is doing well, which his wife believes is a result of humor.

A year ago in June, Mr. McNeill was diagnosed with the most aggressive form of malignant glioma, which U.S. Sen. Ted Kennedy might also have. But he decries the sort of "doom and gloom" prognosis that has accompanied news of the veteran lawmaker's illness this week.

"I had to call my mother because it's going to scare her to death," said Mr. McNeill, 47, of North Augusta.

Glioblastoma multiforme is the most common form of brain tumor, accounting for 12 percent to 15 percent of them, and is the most aggressive, with most patients lasting an average of less than a year, according to the National Cancer Institute. But Mr. McNeill and his wife, Cindy, argue those survival rates don't take into account more recent advances.

Patients who got the surgery, radiation therapy and chemotherapy drug Temodar, as Mr. McNeill did, have longer survival rates. A study from India last year found the median survival rate was 16.4 months, with 29 percent living to a second year; a similar study in Italy in 2007 found a median survival rate of 19 months with that treatment regimen.

Comparing Mr. McNeill with Mr. Kennedy is "a very good way to look at what the issues are with Kennedy," said Augusta neurosurgeon Mark Lee, who removed Mr. McNeill's tumor at Medical College of Georgia Hospital.

"People that have a relatively good prognosis with a malignant glioma -- they're young, they're healthy, the tumor is in an area of the brain that is amenable to complete resection," Dr. Lee said. "Tim is that." With Mr. Kennedy, "He's got everything going against him."

There is another thing the McNeills think is an advantage for them: Mr. McNeill's sense of humor. Ironically, it was Mrs. McNeill's birthday June 11 when she finally dragged Mr. McNeill to the Emergency Department at MCG to find the source of his months of lethargy and occasional severe headaches and droopy face.

"I thought I was just being overexamined," Mr. McNeill said jokingly.

But the results of a CT scan showed a large mass on the right side of the brain, and Mr. McNeill was admitted to the hospital for surgery in a couple of days. Now sporting a large scar across the top of his head, he was determined to leave the hospital days later under his own terms. He dispatched his wife and sister to find fake bolts, which he fixed to the side of his neck to become "Timmenstein."

After getting extensive radiation therapy and shaving off the rest of his hair, he posed for a photo as Uncle Fester from The Addams Family , complete with a glowing light bulb in his mouth, as though lit by him.

"And people believed it," he said with a laugh.

The prognosis is still very poor in general for these patients and whether there is reason for optimism about current clinical trials could be a "half-full or half-empty type of story," said Dr. Alfredo D. Voloschin, a neuro-oncologist at MCG.

"The positive sides are there are many things ongoing, whether it is tumor vaccines, whether it is gene therapy, whether it is anti-angiogenesis (blocking the growth of new tumor blood vessels), there are many things going on," he said. "To date, none of them have made a significant, dramatic improvement. We're not talking about cure or remission of these tumors, in general."

The McNeills prefer to take the half-full view. The couple have benefited from understanding bosses at Phoenix Commercial Printers, who have supported and allowed them time to recover and take long-discussed trips.

The couple also talk confidently of time ahead -- much time ahead.

"Tremendous attitude," Mrs. McNeill said of her husband. "It's a huge difference maker. He's still hysterical. That's how he deals with the whole thing is laughing at it."

"Having a partially empty head for once was an advantage," joked Mr. McNeill, whose tumor was the size of a racquetball.

Reach Tom Corwin at (706) 823-3213 or tom.corwin@augustachronicle.com.

Comments

Son of God

Jesus was wounded for your transgressions and bruised for your iniquities. The chastisement of your peace was upon him and by His Stripes, you were healed. Isaiah 53:5,6. What you are laughing at really (I sincerely hope) is the devil. Death and Life are in the power of the tongue and they that love it will eat the fruit theroof. Proverbs 18:21. Not one time in your article did you mention Jesus, the miracle healer who has kept you and continually keeps you from falling.Your strength is made Perfect in Jesus and Jesus ONLY!! Speak Life and command those tumors to go back to the pitts of hell from whence they come. Who's report do you believe? I believe the report of the Lord. Change your speech and speak Life and not death. My God can give you a new HEAD AND A NEW BODY. GOD is a HEALER. My grandson was born with an annuerism in his aorta according to the doctors. When an annuerism bursts in the heart, that's automatically death. We prayed, laid handson, and anointed that little boy and in three days (just as the SON OF GOD WAS RAISED FROM THE DEAD IN THREE DAYS) that annureism went back to the pitts of hell and my grandson was healed.The doctor read Romans 10:9,10 and was savedAMEN

soldout

Great attitude. His mind is telling his body to live and it is doing it. Another step he could do is call the North Carolina Institute of Technology and order a book called "Am I dead yet or do I just feel that way" 888-943-2563. They are doing great things by using the tooth/tumor connection theory to eliminate cancer by fixing a diseased tooth. The disease in the teeth they fix don't usually show up in normal dental examines. This is also being researched locally but that research is not complete.

soldout

Amen to Son of God. Continue to speak the truth and reality of Jesus.

426Hemi

SoG/puvy, spare me the insult. Leave your religion at the front door-inside, thank you. Did you type this or were you coerced into this nonsensical rave? The comment reminds me of the overbearing, religious whack mother in the movie "Carrie." Now, to the real healers; the physicians and the human body. IMHO.

At A Snells Pace

Yes, we are Christians. Our faith is HUGE in this fight! During our LENGTHY interview, we spoke of our faith, our church, our blessings from this diagnosis, our families, our friends, our employers, chemotherapy, radiation, needles, iv's, infusion chairs, medications, second-opinions, hospital bills, insurance, constantly researching options, others with this beast, doctor visits, CT scans every 6-weeks, fatigue, the diagnosis in the ER, telling our sons, brain surgery, and so much more! Mr. Corwin wrote an article, not a book. We think he did a great job and appreciate the purpose of letting people know you can LIVE with this diagnosis. Tim's wonderful sense of humor was portrayed and by the way, that personality trait is a GOD given gift!!!

nstreetman

Anyone who knows my Uncle Tim knows that he is a man of great faith and is humbled by his many blessings. This illness has deepened his relationship with the Lord. As my Aunt Cindy mentions in the comment above, his wonderful sense of humor is a gift from God.

Do not make assumptions based on what you see (or don't see) in a newspaper article. It is the prerogative of the reporter to include what he believes is important to include in the space that is allowed. This article couldn't begin to touch on what a remarkable and multi-faceted person Tim is. We are all in awe of him and how he has dealt with this very sobering diagnosis.

Nicole Streetman
Charleston, SC

soldout

Great words from the McNeills. May you be blessed great health and a long and wonderful life. My wife has had a brain tumor surgery twice since 1989 and God has blessed her in every way and she is 100%.

gagirl40

SonOfGod... You presume to know these people, their hearts and faith but you have no idea! They have a Care Page those of us who know them visit regularly. Their faith is very obvious! Their love for each other and their family is also evident. For you to make such a hateful and hurtful comment is atrocious! And you claim to be a Christian?!?! I'm sure God wouldn't mind if you quit saying that for a while because it's people like you who turn others away from God, not towards Him. 426Hemi...I agree..sounds exactly like Carrie's mother. Scary huh? And to the McNeill's..our prayers continue to be with you and your family. And thank God for Tim's wonderful sense of humor. I've always believed positive thinking and a great mental outlook has a lot to do with helping us heal ourselves..that and great doctors like Dr. Voloschin. God Bless!

soldout

All son of god did was quote the Bible, his intent was good not bad. The Word is life. Where is the problem? I have yet to someone hurt by hearing the Word of God.

gagirl40

Purvis..this is the part I was referring to, "Not one time in your article did you mention Jesus, the miracle healer who has kept you and continually keeps you from falling.Your strength is made Perfect in Jesus and Jesus ONLY!! Speak Life and command those tumors to go back to the pitts of hell from whence they come. Who's report do you believe? I believe the report of the Lord. Change your speech and speak Life and not death." This was not a quote from the Bible. For anyone to presume to know another's faith simply because they read an article that obviously was edited is ridiculous. What gives them the right to questions someone else's faith? Why not just comment nicely? Had they said everything else they said but left out that part that would have been fine. A little scary still, but fine.

soldout

okay, I understand your comment better now. son of god is just excited over Jesus like Tiger Woods is excited over golf. I thought their response was very good. They are blessed and the "joy of the Lord" certainly is his strength. I am sure Ted Kennedy wished he had it. He might need to write Ted Kennedy; it can't hurt.

sneaky pete

Great attitude. And Phoenix Copiers gets a big kudos for their willingness to take the right road in their helping in the way they have. Go get em Timmenstein. I'm pulling for ya bud.

love all

Dear Son of God -
It is unfortunate that the reporter chose not to report on the great faith of Tim and Cindy McNeill. I can assure you that they DO believe in the healing promises of the word and stand daily on the fact that "by His stripes (Tim) is healed." I know this because Tim, Cindy and I have read all of the scriptures you cited in your comment TOGETHER during a visit early on after his diagnosis. I must tell you that I myself came away from my visit with them marveling at their strength and faith in God and His provision for Tim's healing. I am sure that you were concerned only with Tim's survival when you sent your email citing the many promises of God for healing. I appreciate, (as I am sure Tim and Cindy do,) your concern for Tim's life. I think, however, that instead of helping the McNeills in a time of great trial you have inadvertantly added to their concerns by questioning their FAITH. It seems that this is an excellent opportunity for you to learn not to be quick to judge others - "LEST YE BE JUDGED" - especially when you are not aware of all of the facts. I believe an apology would be in order here-although they have forgiven you already. God bless you

Son of God

Thank all of you for your wonderful comments. To God be the Glory for ALL of them. Not one time did I say anything against this fine gentleman or his belief. I spoke against the article that was written and no mention of THE MIRACLE WORKING WONDER OF JESUS being responsible for his healed tumors. One day he will visit the doctor and find out that there aren't any more tumors. I won't back down from one word that I said. I unconditionally love this young man, his wife, everyone who commented in this article and especially the one who called me an idiot. GOD IS LOVE and I cannot proclaim the gospel of JHesus Christ if I do not have LOVE, THAT'S THE FIRST COMMANDMENT. There are four people in MCG and Doctor's Hospital that have been pronounced DEAD in ICU. God has given me the POWER to lay hands on them and all four are back to work now. James 5:14. These signs shall follow them that BELIEVE.In my name they shall cast out devils, they shall speak with new tongues. They shall take up serpents and if they drink any deadly thing, it shall not hurt them; they shall lay hands on the sick and they shall recover.Mark 16:17, 18. The young man IS HEALED BY THE STRIPES OF JESUS. I COMMAND THE

Son of God

devil to leave his body now and no sickness shall dwell in god's holy temple. know ye not that this man's body is the temple of the holy ghost and christ dwells inside of him. you have to study to show yourselves approved and read james and see what it says about the tongue. purvis investments thank you for your understanding of what god spoke through me. i hate the devil and have the power to put him under my feet. i do not care what the doctors say. death and life are in the power of the tongue and they that love it will eat the fruit thereof. proverbs 18:21 sure the doctors have said a report about your tumors bur god has given another report and say that you are healed. speak the word only and it shall come to pass. i believe the report of the lord and not the bad report of the doctors. young man, you shall not die but live to declare the works of the lord. to the young lady that wrote at 4:25 a. m., i am saying the naked word of god and i won't compromise. i love this young man and i see what the devil is trying to do. frankly i don't care what the article says or what negative statements others said. i will only believe what jesus says. haters killed jesus and blessed him.

debstreetman

Tim is my little brother, my best friend, and now my hero. When I am feeling down, he cheers me. I am amazed at his lack of self pity. He says "I am luckier than some". Tim has always been a person that is willing to give more than he receives and is always humbled by the attention he gets, but, I'm not. He is a wonderful person, a good friend, some one willing to help any one. he is good looking and strong, with a great sense of humor. He inspires others.
Tim has often said to me, "if money can fix it, it's not a problem. He now faces a problem, a problem that leaves his family and friends frustrated and concerned ,because it is out of our hands. We can only offer support and prayers. Tim remains upbeat and hopeful. His faith is strong. He calls this a "major" inconvenience in his life. He is convinced he can beat this thing. He has me convinced too!
I love you "little brother." Hang in there This is the longest race yet, all up hill, but I know you can do it. We will all be here cheering for you.
Deborah McNeill Streetman

closefriendsNA

Tim and Cindy, I appreciate that you shared your time with the reporter in an attempt to shed a positive light on this dreaded type of cancer. I think it is sad to read some of the strong comments that appear above, the devil is again at work! It is unfortunate but obvious that this SOG does not know you or he would know that from the beginning you have never questioned "why me" but always were thankful for the gifts that God grants to you each and everyday, how you both have sought the Lord's will in treatment. He would know how you have served God by encouraging other GBM patients and their families. He would know that Tim, despite his diagnosis and fatigue, is always looking to do something for someone else in need. Tim is a faithful servant to Our Lord. SOG would also know that because of your love for others and your strong desire to help find a cure that you headed a team in the local Relay for Life in NA that raised more than $13,000 in funds that go directly to the American Cancer Society. I consider it my greatest honor to be a close friend of the two of you. Do not let this be a discouragement to you! I love you my friends and support you all the way. Teresa

At A Snells Pace

Ok...friends of the McNeill's...calm down! Gezzz... can't take ya'll anywhere! Ha! We're okay with what SOG said... maybe we misinterpreted that he was questioning our faith... apparently he wasn't. Regardless, we are grounded in our faith and we see God's hand all in this diagnosis and this journey! All this blog has done is make Tim laugh more so hey, thanks for the chuckles!!! Love you all - mean it!

Blessings!!!

Son of God

I love you and your family Mr. Tim with an unconditional love and as I read some of the comments from your friends toward me, I hve nothing to show them but love as well. I want to thank ALL of them for their wonderful remarks. I receive all of them. When I read the 66 books of the Bible, God speaks in his word who I am so anything that is said about me that does not line up with the word of God is Null and void. I just left church in a tent revival on Laney Walker Boulevard. It is there for eight days and God has healed, delivered, and set free all week. I regret that your friends came to your defense and blasphemed my name because my intentions in the beginning was not to question you or your faith. It was only to lift up the mame of Jesus and proclaim healing for you instantly. Keep laughing and never be discouraged. Some of the people who responded and insulted me or my name are forgiven. I love them unconditionally. I thank God for people like PURVIS INVESTMENTS who have the same spirit as SOG. There is nothing that I said that would hurt anyone unless they doubt the wonder working power of Jesus. Before this week is out, expect a miracle. I love all of you, BE BLESSED SHALOM

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