KISSIMMEE, Fla. — B.J. Upton was suffering through the most dreadful season of his career, and little brother Justin was in the same Atlanta clubhouse.
But he didn’t seek comfort from him. In fact, he didn’t reach out to anyone.
“It was difficult, but I’m kind of a loner,” Upton said as he sat in the dugout on a recent dreary day in spring camp. “I handle things my own way. That’s just kind of the way it is.”
Justin Upton, three years B.J.’s junior, shook his head when asked whether it surprised him that B.J. didn’t ask for his support when he dealt with hitting just .184 and being benched in his first year with the Braves. The season-long slump came after he signed a five-year, $75.25 million contract.
“Nobody’s going to help you fix yourself,” Justin said. “Until something clicks with you in your mind, things won’t go the right direction.”
OK, but surely B.J. talked to his parents about his problems? Nope.
“What could anyone really say to me? None of them had gone through what I had gone through last year,” he said.
So he’d trudge home after each bad game and try to sort through things solo.
“I’d go home and regroup and come back the next day to work and try to fix it,” he said.
“It just never panned out.”
The center fielder’s distaste at confiding in anyone didn’t stop scores of people from offering unsolicited advice.
“And that’s the problem,” he said. “Everybody wants to throw in their two cents all the time and you start trying to listen to everybody and before you know it you’ve got 100 people in your head. And you’re trying to play with him telling you something and him telling you something, and you just kind of take it with you to the field.”
The 29-year-old, who was the second overall pick in the 2002 draft by Tampa Bay and made his major league debut at 19, doesn’t fault those who reached out to him. But he believes that at almost 30, he should be able to handle things alone.
“They want to help, but I just think sometimes you can get too much information, and that’s kind of what happened,” he said. “It just kind of snowballed. I started off struggling, kind of hit the panic button and it never stopped.”
His contract was the biggest ever given to a free agent by the Braves, a fact Upton said led to a “bad situation.” He was so busy striving to live up to expectations that he let it affect his play.
Lofty expectations aren’t anything new for Upton, who was touted as a five-tool, game-changing player when he was drafted out of high school. He became a key starter for Tampa Bay, hitting seven home runs in the postseason when the Rays reached the World Series in 2008, becoming the first player in franchise history to hit for the cycle a year later and stealing more than 40 bases in three consecutive seasons.
Despite those accomplishments, he remained a prime target for criticism in part because he was never exactly what he was predicted to be as a teenager.
He narrows his eyes and something briefly flashes across his face at the mention of “five-tool player.” It’s evident he’s grown weary of shouldering outside expectations of what he should be.
“All of that. I’m over all that,” he said after a deep breath. “I’m just like, ‘Leave me alone and let me play. Just let me play the game. Stop putting a number or tag on something of what people expect. Just leave me alone and let me play. I’ll be fine.’”
Braves manager Fredi Gonzalez is perfectly comfortable with not putting too much pressure on Upton. So what would he consider a successful season for Upton after his disastrous debut?
“Just a good, solid year,” Gonzalez said. “Something that he would have on the back of his baseball card, something that he’s done prior to last year. Those numbers are pretty good.”
When Upton discusses 2013, he does it with a dismissive tone.
“Last year was done a long time ago,” he said. “I’m just not really worried about anything.”